I hear parents say, “I just don’t know what to teach my children with all of my own questioning,”
Words and stories that are true ought to transcend age.
Our goal should simply be to provide a safe environment for our children to live out their inherent spirituality.
we carry wounds from a childhood of toxic religiosity that are easily triggered as we relive some of our childhood through our own kids.
Be wild and weird and wonder if you know what the heck you’re doing, because it’s okay if you don’t.
What I don’t want is for the children to have to exile parts of themselves and having to put themselves back together like I had to, I want them to grow as whole selves, from childhood and beyond.
That total depravity thing really threw me off my game in my youth. The T in TULIP cramped my style big time. I spent a lot of energy as a young person and a young Christian denying myself as part and parcel of following Jesus. Which complicated my personal and spiritual development when the teenage…