{"id":3398,"date":"2021-06-28T04:00:35","date_gmt":"2021-06-27T20:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cindywangbrandt.com\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=3398"},"modified":"2021-06-26T07:01:53","modified_gmt":"2021-06-25T23:01:53","slug":"episode-124-parenting-on-tik-tok-with-destini-ann","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/cindywangbrandt.com\/podcast\/episode-124-parenting-on-tik-tok-with-destini-ann\/","title":{"rendered":"<span class=\"episode-num\">Episode 124<\/span>Parenting on Tik Tok with Destini Ann"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recently, I\u2019ve been hearing a lot about one certain Tik Toker. Because I hang out in parenting spaces a lot, I hear about cool new voices and parenting influencers pretty quickly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none;\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/19610978\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/backward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/ed7e91\/\" width=\"100%\" height=\"90\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this case, my community has been raving about how much they love this Tik Toker. I\u2019ve started seeing her videos all over the place and they\u2019re truly amazing. Her name is Destini Ann.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Destini and I met a couple of weeks ago and when we did I soon realized that she hadn\u2019t been around as long as I\u2019d thought. She blew up on Tik Tok semi-recently after just a couple of her videos went viral. Destini makes videos where she coaches parents and offers them her experience from a nonjudgemental place. Today we are discussing some of those videos together and what her journey of parenting on Tik Tok has been like so far.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Show Highlights:<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why our toddlers hitting us can be triggering.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to train yourself out of that trigger reaction.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why acceptance is so important as a parent.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why Destini uses scripts in her Tik Toks.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The balance between displaying our highlight reel and our real-life moments on social media.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What our kids can teach us about freedom.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to express our needs to our kids without blaming them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Destini\u2019s process of moving away from permissive parenting.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How she navigates positive parenting as a black woman.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The importance of providing a safe space for black parents.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><b>Links (affiliates included):<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Destini Ann\u2019s Tik Tok &#8211;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@destini.ann?lang=en&amp;is_copy_url=1&amp;is_from_webapp=v1\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@destini.ann?lang=en&amp;is_copy_url=1&amp;is_from_webapp=v1<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parenting Forward Conference &#8211;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.parentingforwardconference.com\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.parentingforwardconference.com<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Join us at the Parenting Forward Patreon Team &#8211;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/cindywangbrandt\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/cindywangbrandt<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parenting Forward, the Book &#8211;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3g0LJPn1\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/amzn.to\/3g0LJPn1<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">PREORDER You Are Revolutionary &#8211;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beamingbooks.com\/store\/product\/9781506478302\/You-Are-Revolutionary\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.beamingbooks.com\/store\/product\/9781506478302\/You-Are-Revolutionary<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<span class=\"et_bloom_bottom_trigger\"><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I\u2019ve been hearing a lot about one certain Tik Toker. 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